Things to Keep in Mind When Establishing a New Relationship with a Spirit Ally


As a shaman you encounter many spirit allies during your journeys. Some just stop to say hello and deliver a message, and some want to establish a working friendship with you. When spirit wants to work with you is a great honor but there are things that you do need to keep in mind when you are establishing a new partnership with a spirit ally. These have helped me during my own shamanic experiences and I teach them to my trainees. I figured they can help you in your own shamanic practice:

  • This is an equal partnership you are both an energetic being. Yes, you are currently limited because of the physical experience you are having at this moment and yes, they are wiser and more enlightened than you but don’t forget that you are also an being of light and you have innate power and you can be a channel for the power of the Universe and the Divine.
  • Don’t do anything you feel uncomfortable with, use your judgment and inner wisdom when I doubt. You are part of a society that have rules and laws that you must follow. You are accountable for what you do in this life and physical experience. If you are not comfortable with something they are asking for you to do then ask for a different way. Also remember that relationships are based on trust.
  • Have respect and show your gratitude during your interactions. Every time spirit lends a helping hand, make sure that you let them know how grateful you are for their assistance. Remember they are beings too and they do have feelings. This doesn’t mean that you have to worship them.
  • If you don’t understand something ask! You are interacting with them because you are trying to learn more about yourself and the world around you. So do ask questions when you do not understand something. If an answer is not available at that time go back and journey at a later time seeking an answer to your question. At times we are not ready for certain information to be reveals to us and that is fine, but don’t forget that you can ask that at a later time. This is why journaling is important that way you can revisit and see if you need to journey again to gain more knowledge.
  • Talk to them like a friend. Consult with them about your problems and concerns. They will provide you with a different perspective which can be very beneficial for you. You can also be given the solution to the problem you have been seeking.
  • Understand that you are in control. You can always set parameters for communication. If you are a highly intuitive and your Clair abilities are well developed you can set the rules for communication outside non-ordinary reality. You can also choose with whom and when you interact with when in non-ordinary reality. You do have free will.
  • Do not give your power away. This means don’t become over dependent on your interactions with spirit. You have your own inner wisdom, intuition and higher-self that you can rely on for your day to day living. You don’t have to consult with them for every decision you make. They are your friends and yes they are there to guide you but they are not there to live your life for you. You need to understand that you are responsible for yourself; this is your journey in this world. You need to be accountable for the decisions and actions taken. You are the creator and architect of your life.
  • Do journeys which the only purpose is to share with them and get to know them better.



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